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		<title>By: Refugee At Home</title>
		<link>http://www.annhandley.com/2008/12/11/innocents-at-home/comment-page-1/#comment-2424</link>
		<dc:creator>Refugee At Home</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 21:58:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] endless flow of sitcoms. I was heavy into sitcoms when I was younger—at one point, my whole world revolved around the scheduled airing of my favorite shows—but it wasn&#8217;t until now, perhaps with the insight [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] endless flow of sitcoms. I was heavy into sitcoms when I was younger—at one point, my whole world revolved around the scheduled airing of my favorite shows—but it wasn&#8217;t until now, perhaps with the insight [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Marnie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 19:36:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, &quot;Annie&quot;...Loved your post...and have to admit that I&#039;m as much as an optimist as your daughter, Caroline,...Although I now reside in Pennsylvania...a little more temperate than New England, I too found thoughts of &quot;global warming is waning&quot; popping into my noggin ...perhaps it&#039;s because I was not quite a &quot;boomer&quot;...was born right before the dawn of that generation...or that I&#039;m just an incurable optimist...Sorry to inform you but according to my goggling...&quot;there was never a fourth Brady daughter. You&#039;re probably remembering the ad stunt when the Brady Bunch first started airing on TVLand. They did commericals where they popped an obnoxious little girl into old tape of the show and blamed her for all the Brady mishaps. I believe her name was Phoebe&quot;...anywho, I can&#039;t imagine you getting blamed for any mishaps...you&#039;re an amazing woman...will write more later in private email...
Enjoy the holidays...Cheers, Marnie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, &#8220;Annie&#8221;&#8230;Loved your post&#8230;and have to admit that I&#8217;m as much as an optimist as your daughter, Caroline,&#8230;Although I now reside in Pennsylvania&#8230;a little more temperate than New England, I too found thoughts of &#8220;global warming is waning&#8221; popping into my noggin &#8230;perhaps it&#8217;s because I was not quite a &#8220;boomer&#8221;&#8230;was born right before the dawn of that generation&#8230;or that I&#8217;m just an incurable optimist&#8230;Sorry to inform you but according to my goggling&#8230;&#8221;there was never a fourth Brady daughter. You&#8217;re probably remembering the ad stunt when the Brady Bunch first started airing on TVLand. They did commericals where they popped an obnoxious little girl into old tape of the show and blamed her for all the Brady mishaps. I believe her name was Phoebe&#8221;&#8230;anywho, I can&#8217;t imagine you getting blamed for any mishaps&#8230;you&#8217;re an amazing woman&#8230;will write more later in private email&#8230;<br />
Enjoy the holidays&#8230;Cheers, Marnie</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 23:34:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I forgot!!!

I really laughed out loud at the DVD story. These events with our kids serve as evidence that we are becoming our parents.

I have a 36 year old stepdaughter. When she was 11, I had taken her to a Record Store. I was browsing, and she came running over with a Beatles Album.

&quot;Hey Lisa! Did you know Paul McCartney was in a band before Wings?!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And I forgot!!!</p>
<p>I really laughed out loud at the DVD story. These events with our kids serve as evidence that we are becoming our parents.</p>
<p>I have a 36 year old stepdaughter. When she was 11, I had taken her to a Record Store. I was browsing, and she came running over with a Beatles Album.</p>
<p>&#8220;Hey Lisa! Did you know Paul McCartney was in a band before Wings?!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 23:29:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, Ann.  I laughed, and nodded along with you as well. Because I have thought the same at times.

But, I think that it is the eternal hope of those in our generation - regardless of the era, to look at the optimism and potential of our youth.

We must be close to the same age. My boys are older than your daughter at 21 &amp; 19. As they have grown, I have seen all sides of their generation - the good, the bad, the ugly, and the potential.

Like one of your other readers, I do not remember being sheltered. I remember quite a bit of activism.  I also grew up in a city - DC.

My schools, my friends, and my family were actively involved in Woman&#039;s Rights, Conservation, and public/community service. We participated in Earth Day activities, we marched for No Nukes, we were standing outside of the Supreme Court when Roe vs. Wade was handed down.

We live in a rural area now, and it has been a struggle to keep my sons aware of their place in the world and their responsibilities to not just preserve it, but to make it better.

So, I share your optimism and hope in our youth. Their turn to make great change is coming. Just don&#039;t forget the great things that our generation has done, or those before us ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Ann.  I laughed, and nodded along with you as well. Because I have thought the same at times.</p>
<p>But, I think that it is the eternal hope of those in our generation &#8211; regardless of the era, to look at the optimism and potential of our youth.</p>
<p>We must be close to the same age. My boys are older than your daughter at 21 &amp; 19. As they have grown, I have seen all sides of their generation &#8211; the good, the bad, the ugly, and the potential.</p>
<p>Like one of your other readers, I do not remember being sheltered. I remember quite a bit of activism.  I also grew up in a city &#8211; DC.</p>
<p>My schools, my friends, and my family were actively involved in Woman&#8217;s Rights, Conservation, and public/community service. We participated in Earth Day activities, we marched for No Nukes, we were standing outside of the Supreme Court when Roe vs. Wade was handed down.</p>
<p>We live in a rural area now, and it has been a struggle to keep my sons aware of their place in the world and their responsibilities to not just preserve it, but to make it better.</p>
<p>So, I share your optimism and hope in our youth. Their turn to make great change is coming. Just don&#8217;t forget the great things that our generation has done, or those before us <img src='http://www.annhandley.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 21:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found Annarchy while learning about blogging.  I, too, enjoy discussing the generations. Being a war baby I fit somewhere between the Great Generation and the Boomers.  Enjoyed your post --- nay, your essay.  Alas, as one of the naive uninformed group, I have great hope for this generation.  They MUST succeed and they will learn their follies, too.  Let us hope they know how to think just enough and then to act.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found Annarchy while learning about blogging.  I, too, enjoy discussing the generations. Being a war baby I fit somewhere between the Great Generation and the Boomers.  Enjoyed your post &#8212; nay, your essay.  Alas, as one of the naive uninformed group, I have great hope for this generation.  They MUST succeed and they will learn their follies, too.  Let us hope they know how to think just enough and then to act.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Jackson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Jackson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 07:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t decide if you are making it harder or easier for me to hate you. Sincerely. 

I remember Iron Eyes too. He resonated with me for some reason- probably because my father had once told me we had some slim trace of American Indian blood in the family history, though I believe he was just messing with my head again. (He also said I was related to Andrew Jackson- which I am NOT!) Maybe it was because I spent all the time I could outside, preferably fishing, and just felt &quot;it&quot; somehow in the message. I dunno. 

My daughter is only 7 years old and just outside that 2000 window, but she still fits pretty well. Recycling is a must here. And her hippie-fueled school teaches conflict resolution beginning at 1st grade. She was in a special &quot;children of divorce&quot; group last school year... she loved it. But then again, she&#039;s a Gemini and the child of two (TWO!) Pisces parents. Poor thing. 

These kids WILL change the world- for better or for worse. They will. They are so smart and connected and spend so much time thinking of these things and sharing ideas to form their sense of greater community. I envy them in many ways. 

Global warming be damned! Let the snow fall!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t decide if you are making it harder or easier for me to hate you. Sincerely. </p>
<p>I remember Iron Eyes too. He resonated with me for some reason- probably because my father had once told me we had some slim trace of American Indian blood in the family history, though I believe he was just messing with my head again. (He also said I was related to Andrew Jackson- which I am NOT!) Maybe it was because I spent all the time I could outside, preferably fishing, and just felt &#8220;it&#8221; somehow in the message. I dunno. </p>
<p>My daughter is only 7 years old and just outside that 2000 window, but she still fits pretty well. Recycling is a must here. And her hippie-fueled school teaches conflict resolution beginning at 1st grade. She was in a special &#8220;children of divorce&#8221; group last school year&#8230; she loved it. But then again, she&#8217;s a Gemini and the child of two (TWO!) Pisces parents. Poor thing. </p>
<p>These kids WILL change the world- for better or for worse. They will. They are so smart and connected and spend so much time thinking of these things and sharing ideas to form their sense of greater community. I envy them in many ways. </p>
<p>Global warming be damned! Let the snow fall!</p>
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		<title>By: Jen DelMonaco</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen DelMonaco</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 05:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That was awesome Ann.  These are a hopeful generation and I truly believe our girls will make major changes for the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was awesome Ann.  These are a hopeful generation and I truly believe our girls will make major changes for the world.</p>
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		<title>By: Dana Ironside</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dana Ironside</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 19:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Between your post and everyone&#039;s comments so far, I&#039;ve definitely been taken back in time. My daughter is the one at 6 who made me recycle. I admit, I always had guilt about not recycling (i was raised jewish in NY so most things come with some sort of guilt feeling both good and bad) so her little caring words about the environment forced me to act. How could I not? She was so persuasive. 

But on my own childhood and your comment about being the 4th brady sister. That&#039;s impossible, you would have had to have been the fifth! I was the 4th one. :) I could have been a Partridge family sister in the band too but I knew I was just not musically inclined so I resigned myself to the cool brady kids. I think I would have ended up kissing either Peter or Bobby behind the scenes like Marcia kissed Greg. 

Thanks for the memories and the insight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Between your post and everyone&#8217;s comments so far, I&#8217;ve definitely been taken back in time. My daughter is the one at 6 who made me recycle. I admit, I always had guilt about not recycling (i was raised jewish in NY so most things come with some sort of guilt feeling both good and bad) so her little caring words about the environment forced me to act. How could I not? She was so persuasive. </p>
<p>But on my own childhood and your comment about being the 4th brady sister. That&#8217;s impossible, you would have had to have been the fifth! I was the 4th one. <img src='http://www.annhandley.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I could have been a Partridge family sister in the band too but I knew I was just not musically inclined so I resigned myself to the cool brady kids. I think I would have ended up kissing either Peter or Bobby behind the scenes like Marcia kissed Greg. </p>
<p>Thanks for the memories and the insight.</p>
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		<title>By: Tabitha Dunn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tabitha Dunn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 17:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this article.  I confess, I am not a boomer - I am a genX.  but I had the influence of being a military brat and living all over the US and Europe.  I even (gasp) didn&#039;t have a tv until I was ten.  Imagine the look of utter confusion on my six year old daughter&#039;s face... she can&#039;t fathom no tv, much less having to watch commercials, no cable, no dvr, etc...  
Picture this - at four she came wandering into the living room while I was watching CSI (yes, I am an admitted crime show addict).  I asked her to go back to her computer game (sigh) and she snorted at me and said in her chiding voice - &quot;Mom, it&#039;s not like it&#039;s real - it&#039;s only tv!&quot;  (-:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this article.  I confess, I am not a boomer &#8211; I am a genX.  but I had the influence of being a military brat and living all over the US and Europe.  I even (gasp) didn&#8217;t have a tv until I was ten.  Imagine the look of utter confusion on my six year old daughter&#8217;s face&#8230; she can&#8217;t fathom no tv, much less having to watch commercials, no cable, no dvr, etc&#8230;<br />
Picture this &#8211; at four she came wandering into the living room while I was watching CSI (yes, I am an admitted crime show addict).  I asked her to go back to her computer game (sigh) and she snorted at me and said in her chiding voice &#8211; &#8220;Mom, it&#8217;s not like it&#8217;s real &#8211; it&#8217;s only tv!&#8221;  (-:</p>
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		<title>By: Burbanked</title>
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		<dc:creator>Burbanked</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 14:13:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post as ever, Ann, and your insight into our TV generation is terrific. I imagine that my earliest TV-watching years - 67-75 - must have been FILLED with all manner of socially-conscious and revolutionary content, but whether my parents shielded it or my siblings and I simply didn&#039;t seek it out, it didn&#039;t filter in.

My only memory of TV-related rebellion was that my mom refused to let us watch Hogan&#039;s Heroes in the fear that we&#039;d grow up thinking of the Nazis as a bunch of wacky cut-ups. Naturally, we watched the show in secret, my finger nervously on the change-channel button while I waited for the sound of my mother&#039;s footfalls on the steps. To this day when I hear the Hogan theme music, I experience a sudden sense memory and the unsettling sensation that I&#039;m doing something I&#039;m not supposed to.

But one positive, vaguely socially insightful experience I also recall with a strong sense of purpose was the Schoolhouse Rock shorts, most of which were simply educational, but a few of which had political messages as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post as ever, Ann, and your insight into our TV generation is terrific. I imagine that my earliest TV-watching years &#8211; 67-75 &#8211; must have been FILLED with all manner of socially-conscious and revolutionary content, but whether my parents shielded it or my siblings and I simply didn&#8217;t seek it out, it didn&#8217;t filter in.</p>
<p>My only memory of TV-related rebellion was that my mom refused to let us watch Hogan&#8217;s Heroes in the fear that we&#8217;d grow up thinking of the Nazis as a bunch of wacky cut-ups. Naturally, we watched the show in secret, my finger nervously on the change-channel button while I waited for the sound of my mother&#8217;s footfalls on the steps. To this day when I hear the Hogan theme music, I experience a sudden sense memory and the unsettling sensation that I&#8217;m doing something I&#8217;m not supposed to.</p>
<p>But one positive, vaguely socially insightful experience I also recall with a strong sense of purpose was the Schoolhouse Rock shorts, most of which were simply educational, but a few of which had political messages as well.</p>
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